The Problem with Men and Women (not pertinent to all males and females)
As what I have noticed, most men are prideful, that their pride is more important than anything that exists in this world. I see that they find it hard to accept their mistakes; that if they can still manipulate the problem, they will do everything that they could. They will make it appear that they did not commit any mistake. I usually see this attitude in boys playing sports. Most of them have not developed sportsmanship but are still fair players. It is good to give importance or a considerable value to yourself. It would show that you love yourself, but always remember that too much self love is not good. Most problems are unsolved because no one wants to lower down his/her pride. I also noticed that most men tend to always play safe. They assure their selves that they won’t turn out as losers by the end of the game. For me, this is a problem because they sometimes “unintentionally” hurt another person. One concrete situation is when a man courts a girl. Even though he makes promises to this girl, there is another girl who is waiting for him. He makes promises to both girls so that if he gets rejected by one girl, the other will be there for him, and obviously it won’t have such an enormous impact on his pride. Though men give spice to women’s lives, they sometimes get too spicy and make women cry.
Girls are the most sensitive creature in this world. They tend to act according to what they feel or base on their instincts. Because of this, I find most of them to be impulsive. I think this is a problem because they have the tendency to do and say things which they don’t actually mean. And I know that it is very difficult to turn back things which has been done and said. I’ve experienced this myself for so many times. I’ve been in complicated situations for countless times just because of what I’ve said that I did not actually mean. In fact, I’ve been called to the guidance office for several times just because of my stupid mouth. Well, as what everybody always says, “Laging nasa huli ang pagsisi”. What can I do? What has been done has been done. I just have to learn from those mistakes and never do it again (I hope so). Self-control is the answer to this problem. We must think before we act, so that by the end of any action, we won’t have anything to regret. We have to be very careful with what we do, and with what we say because we might hurt others. We always have to put in our minds that all people have feelings. But of course, it does not end in just knowing that others have feelings too, we have to care. If we want others to respect us, we must respect them too.
As what I have noticed, most men are prideful, that their pride is more important than anything that exists in this world. I see that they find it hard to accept their mistakes; that if they can still manipulate the problem, they will do everything that they could. They will make it appear that they did not commit any mistake. I usually see this attitude in boys playing sports. Most of them have not developed sportsmanship but are still fair players. It is good to give importance or a considerable value to yourself. It would show that you love yourself, but always remember that too much self love is not good. Most problems are unsolved because no one wants to lower down his/her pride. I also noticed that most men tend to always play safe. They assure their selves that they won’t turn out as losers by the end of the game. For me, this is a problem because they sometimes “unintentionally” hurt another person. One concrete situation is when a man courts a girl. Even though he makes promises to this girl, there is another girl who is waiting for him. He makes promises to both girls so that if he gets rejected by one girl, the other will be there for him, and obviously it won’t have such an enormous impact on his pride. Though men give spice to women’s lives, they sometimes get too spicy and make women cry.
Girls are the most sensitive creature in this world. They tend to act according to what they feel or base on their instincts. Because of this, I find most of them to be impulsive. I think this is a problem because they have the tendency to do and say things which they don’t actually mean. And I know that it is very difficult to turn back things which has been done and said. I’ve experienced this myself for so many times. I’ve been in complicated situations for countless times just because of what I’ve said that I did not actually mean. In fact, I’ve been called to the guidance office for several times just because of my stupid mouth. Well, as what everybody always says, “Laging nasa huli ang pagsisi”. What can I do? What has been done has been done. I just have to learn from those mistakes and never do it again (I hope so). Self-control is the answer to this problem. We must think before we act, so that by the end of any action, we won’t have anything to regret. We have to be very careful with what we do, and with what we say because we might hurt others. We always have to put in our minds that all people have feelings. But of course, it does not end in just knowing that others have feelings too, we have to care. If we want others to respect us, we must respect them too.
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